Marriage is a choice. The most precious thing is not that we chose each other from many choices, but that no matter how long it takes, we will still choose each other from many choices.
A good and happy marriage will only make each other, after experiencing the baptism of time, the hardships of life, and the impermanence of life, still hold each other’s hands regardless of the consequences and steadfastly.
So, what kind of marriage is good and happy?
I think, it’s probably that one person is “interesting” and the other is willing to be “interesting” with them.
A Good Marriage Always Has a “Drama Queen”
“Life is long, you have to be with someone interesting.”
You can’t predict when an interesting person will suddenly say something that is both sentimental and funny.
One day, on the way home from picking up my son from school, my husband suddenly said to me without warning, in a serious tone, “I love you so much.”
I didn’t react for a moment, so I laughed and tried to get away with it. But my husband wouldn’t let me. He said seriously, “What are you doing? I really love you.”
I had to adjust my mood and said seriously, “Okay, thank you, Pig Daddy, I love you too.”
At this time, my three-year-old son suddenly came over and asked curiously, “What are you guys doing?”
So my husband said to my son with affection, “Oh, I love you too.”
But then he corrected himself, “Oh, no, I love you sometimes.”
My son asked, “What about sometimes?”
My husband replied, “Sometimes I love you a little bit.”
My son continued to ask, “What about sometimes?”
My husband patiently answered, “Sometimes I love you a lot.”
My son, like a curious baby, continued to ask, “What about sometimes?”
Seeing that I didn’t know when it would end, my husband quickly asked my son, “Do you love me?”
My son, mimicking his father, said seriously, “I love you, I super love you.”
These kinds of little stories often play out in our home, giving me the passion to keep recording life. At the same time, it also adds some joy to our married life, making it less ordinary.
This is probably the joy of having a “drama queen” lover. You never have to worry about life becoming boring.
A Good Marriage Always Has Someone Willing to “Act” with You
Think about it, if you have someone like that around, someone who is willing to cook with you and can always pick up your jokes, someone who can travel the world with you and hold your hand to watch the flowers in the courtyard, then how can happiness not be found?
“It’s easy to know each other, but hard to stay together. A happy marriage needs careful management and a good method.”
When we are all willing to live an interesting life with each other, when we are all willing to explore, explore the way to get along with each other, then marriage will surely be as desirable as the initial love.
A Good Marriage: He’s Making a Scene, You’re Laughing
One person only jokes around with the person they love the most, and the other person is only willing to spend time appreciating their joking around. Those two people will definitely not be afraid of any hardship or storm. Their marriage will definitely be full of sweet little happiness.
“A good marriage is falling in love with each other over and over again.”
If love really has an expiration date, then maybe we can choose to fall in love with the same person over and over again.
Marriage is not just a bed, it’s also understanding and love.
First, we must believe that a happy marriage is a state of mind.
Second, we must understand that a happy marriage needs to be savored.
Finally, we need to unlock: Why a good marriage needs love first.