These days, women are starting to understand the importance of independence. But in society, some women become too strong, their words aggressive, and their behavior unacceptable.
Society is like a big dye vat. When you enter, you see a world so different from what you imagined. This difference makes people change in different ways. When we see someone behaving badly, are we laughing at them, or are we clearly seeing their ugly side? Do these people realize what kind of image and attention they’re getting when they’re throwing a tantrum? What do you lose after you make a scene in public?
A woman went to a convenience store and accidentally bumped into someone, causing their phone to fall and break. The person started yelling at her, even bringing her mother into it. The next day, the woman was found dead. The reason? The woman was yelling and cursing at the other person’s mother, leading to a tragic accident.
When people go on blind dates, they usually just have a meal or afternoon tea. A typical meal costs around $100. One woman, confident in her looks, invited a man to a fancy, high-end restaurant. When the bill came, she was shocked to find he had already left, leaving her to pay thousands of dollars. She was furious and decided to tell the media about it.
The woman said she could afford it, but doesn’t spend that much every day. This means she could afford it, but not every day. Telling the media about it only makes her look worse. It shows that she depends on men to pay for her.
Another woman got a job, but she was fired. She then threw a tantrum, demanding her salary. It was unbelievable! She got away with it and got paid by several factories. After getting hired, she slacked off, not doing any work. Her manager fired her, but she started rolling around and yelling. The company had to give in and pay her for a day. She even demanded a half-month salary. She repeatedly used this method to “profit” during her trial period.
Is this the kind of character women should have? Kindness? If you have a shred of kindness, you wouldn’t curse at people. Today, men and women are equal. No one wants to be taken advantage of. If women need to rely on others to get what they want, they lose their independence. When women use tantrums to get what they want, it shows they lack basic manners.
What are the basic qualities a modern woman should have?
Independence is Essential for Survival
Life is like that. You have to choose between suffering or being tired. No one gets to have all the good things.
As children, we were always happy when we did something good. Maybe our parents or elders would praise us, saying, “You’re such a good girl!”
But we can’t stand even a little bit of hardship. But as we grow up, there’s nothing that’s not hard. Life is unpredictable. Nothing goes according to plan.
Nowadays, many unmarried children live with their parents. They may seem independent because they have jobs, but they still rely on their families. Is that really independence? In the past, there was always a meal waiting for them when they came home. Now, their parents are in the hospital fighting illnesses. There’s no food waiting for them. They have to cook for themselves. As we get older, these changes happen quietly. Independence becomes essential for survival.
When couples separate, the first problem they face is survival. The most important condition for survival is independence. How can you talk about survival if you’re not independent?
Kindness is a Woman’s Biggest Strength
Kindness is a person’s true nature. We should uphold kindness, but everything has its limits. We need to know where to draw the line. We can’t be too kind or too generous. If you are, people will take advantage of you. They’ll think everything you do is your responsibility. Even if you want to refuse later, they won’t understand. In their eyes, it’s your duty. They forget all the kindness you’ve shown them.
A person’s biggest strength is kindness. A kind person, no matter where they are, will always be sincere and honest. They live a simple life and do things with a clear conscience. This way, they can feel at peace and win people’s hearts.
The old saying goes, “Good people get good rewards.” Those who are kind will be rewarded. Everyone faces difficulties in life. Today, you help someone. In the future, when you face difficulties, they will quietly help you.
Humility is a Virtue
Humility is a virtue, a quality, and a kind of wisdom.
A woman might seem very refined at first glance. This means she’s humble and polite, gentle and graceful, even if she’s not very knowledgeable. People always like and enjoy being close to women who are humble like water and calm like the moon.
Nowadays, women strive to be beautiful. But when you get to know them, you understand them better. While beauty can attract attention, if a woman is not only beautiful but also humble, she’s practically perfect. But if she always wants to be the center of attention, bosses people around, and is arrogant, people will lose their initial liking and closeness to her. No one will like her.
For a woman who is both kind and beautiful, humility is an essential quality. If you want to improve yourself, you need to cultivate and train your character. You need to learn to be grateful and respectful to others in humility. It’s the essence of life.
When a woman has independence, kindness, and humility, her expectations of men will also change. This growth won’t make her lose her emotions because of a man’s absence. Her financial freedom allows her to slow down her pace in marriage and love. She won’t feel anxious about having children. Instead, she can enjoy life more calmly.
Life is long. Women should not only focus on daily chores. They should also create their own world, make themselves strong, and keep living. They should be kind to others and leave themselves a way out. Life will reward them with a colorful life.
Being humble makes you more understanding. No matter how complicated the world is, women should express their best three basic qualities: independent living, kindness, and humility.