The biggest regret in life is giving up on something you shouldn’t have, and holding onto something you shouldn’t.
Maybe people are used to certain people and things, and they’d rather just put up with it than change.
But, you know, always compromising just makes things harder on others and yourself.
Life can’t always be perfect. When you hit a dead end, just turn a corner. You’ll see a different view.
Fix Your Mistakes, Quickly
A person who succeeds in society is the one who’s better at fixing their mistakes than others.
People make mistakes. It’s how you handle them that defines you.
From ancient times, successful people knew the importance of fixing their mistakes quickly.
Successful people need more than just perseverance. They need the ability to see the big picture.
There are many paths to Rome. Why focus on just one?
Going straight ahead takes courage, but surviving takes wisdom.
It’s better to give up wisely than to hold on blindly.
Knowing others is intelligence, but knowing yourself is wisdom.
Only by understanding your situation and seeing your strengths can you turn a corner when you’re at a dead end and find a new path.
When Love Goes Wrong, Let Go
No matter what shoes you wear, the most important thing is that they fit. No matter what kind of relationship you have, the best thing is harmony. Don’t just chase expensive shoes and hurt your feet.
Verna finally broke up with her boyfriend after eight years together.
Verna and her boyfriend met and fell in love in college. Verna was gentle and graceful, kind and understanding. Her boyfriend was tall, handsome, and sunny.
Wherever they went, they drew envious stares.
After four years of college, her boyfriend stayed at his family’s company, and Verna found a good job near his company.
Time is the best test. As time went on, they started to disagree.
Verna was hardworking and ambitious. She liked to be alone, focusing on things, and wanted to achieve her dreams through hard work. Her boyfriend loved to socialize and was content with the status quo. He relied on his parents.
Verna’s hard work and independence seemed fake and pretentious to him.
Her boyfriend’s partying and lack of ambition broke Verna’s heart.
They started arguing over small things, apologizing, and making up.
For years, they fought and made up, hoping to change each other. But they couldn’t.
Verna finally broke up with him because the relationship was too exhausting.
The furthest distance in the world is being close to someone but not understanding each other.
The saddest love is when two people like each other but their values don’t align.
Many couples who seem perfect on the outside may not be a good match.
I once heard a story:
A monk asked a seeker, “If you had a gold bar and a pile of dirt, which would you choose?”
The seeker answered confidently, “Of course, I’d choose the gold!”
The monk smiled and asked, “What if you were a seed?”
The seeker realized: There’s no absolute good or bad in the world. The best thing is what suits you.
Don’t let societal biases limit you. If you love the wrong person, don’t compromise.
The longer you wear the wrong shoes, the worse your feet will hurt.
If you can’t hold onto something, it’s better to let go.
If the mountain doesn’t turn, the road will. If the road doesn’t turn, the person will.
Water avoids obstacles to reach the sea, taking the long way around.
People can only overcome life’s challenges and achieve their dreams by learning to adapt.
Fix your mistakes and you’ll become better.
Turn a corner when you hit a dead end and you’ll get unexpected surprises.
When love goes wrong, let go. Don’t let your stubbornness turn love into pain.
You have to walk your own path. The only thing that can truly protect you is your own choices.
Water takes the shape of its container. People adapt to the situation.
Life isn’t just about moving forward or backward. Learning to “turn a corner” is also a wise choice.
Your fate is in your hands. Don’t settle. You can always start over.