A friend complained to me:
“Dating is so boring. Every day it’s ‘good morning,’ ‘good afternoon,’ ‘good night.’ Even my mom doesn’t do that anymore.”
We live fast-paced lives, even our relationships need to keep up.
Dating like a checklist can’t add any fun to our monotonous lives.
No wonder young people are less and less interested in dating.
Life is short, we should find love with interesting souls.
Poets are romantic and sentimental, that’s true. They loved more than one person in their lives, and were loved by others who had unrequited feelings for them.
Reading enriches their spiritual world. A full heart and mind can inspire people’s longing for beauty more than a generic appearance.
Reading is the best way to cultivate your character, and it’s the capital for our love life.
Reading Lets You See Beauty
“The world doesn’t lack beauty, it lacks eyes to see it.”
Someone who can find the interesting side of everyday life must have a child living inside them, always curious about the world, never stopping to explore.
Reading lets us step out of our own little world, live other people’s lives in books, and gain different experiences.
When we’ve seen the vastness of the ocean, we’re no longer satisfied with the peace of a small pond. We actively seek out the beautiful people and things around us.
The more you read, the purer you become, like a child, with sharper eyes than the average person, better able to see the good in someone.
“Your hair is not only pure black, but also straight and not curly, neatly arranged in a circle. I can’t explain it, but I think the beauty of your hair is something I’ve never seen before.”
If your boyfriend praised your hair like this, wouldn’t it make you happier than a simple “Your hair looks nice?”
Even the most passionate love eventually needs to return to the down-to-earth life of marriage.
If you can look at your significant other with a discerning eye, make your life together interesting and fulfilling, you can have a long-lasting, passionate love.
Reading Attracts Love with Talent
Good love is attracted, not pursued. Love that’s earned through effort won’t last.
We can’t easily change the appearance our parents gave us, but we can cultivate ourselves through reading, make ourselves talented.
People who read often have a deep love and appreciation for beauty and life.
Reading not only makes life more interesting, but also helps you find people with similar interests, souls resonate, and love grows into deeper love.
Reading more, besides helping you find love, can also play a big role in maintaining it.
People often say distance is the biggest enemy of couples. A boyfriend has been on a business trip for over two months, but their hearts are connected through words, their passion grows stronger, not weaker.
Deep affection often starts with the resonance of two interesting souls, and it becomes more mellow over time.
Reading Gives You the Courage to Love and Hate
The most beautiful form of love is independent intimacy, love and freedom, not one person constantly giving in.
Not everyone can be brave enough to love and hate, to maintain the purest state of love.
Some people will come into our lives, and some will leave.
We can’t be responsible for everyone, we can only be responsible for ourselves.
When you love, love deeply. When you don’t love, let go.
Be brave enough to love and hate, live your life in love.
Reading is the cheapest way to improve yourself. It not only opens our eyes to see the beautiful people and things around us.
It also attracts souls with similar interests, creates resonance, and ultimately gives us the courage to love and hate, to live our own lives.