Some people say that sweet talk is not sincere,
some say that men who talk too much are unreliable,
and some say that people who understand you don’t need to say much.
But that’s not true.
The fewer words exchanged between two people, the more misunderstandings there are, and the closer the distance, the more conflicts there are.
This is a difficult balance to strike, and even golden couples have various contradictions and misunderstandings, which is inevitable.
Because when two people come together, it’s a fusion of two individuals with differences.
Since it’s a fusion, it’s bound to produce various chemical reactions and spark conflicts.
In this situation, a catalyst or lubricant is needed to protect against friction when love is produced.
Sweet words are just the right medicine to warm people’s hearts.
As the saying goes, “One kind word can warm three winters.”
When a woman is hurt, saying a few comforting words can make her feel like you’re by her side, which is her greatest happiness.
Too Honest Men Are Too Boring
In real life, women all want to find a reliable man, get married, have kids, and have a stable family.
Women think that marrying a reliable man is pretty trustworthy, after all, honest men are more down-to-earth and provide a greater sense of security.
However, they often discover after marriage that life becomes very dull, and honest men are not good at expressing their inner feelings.
For example, in the classic novel “Water Margin,” there’s a character named Wu Dalang, who sells pancakes every day, and his wife, Pan Jinlian, stays at home all day.
Wu Dalang may not be wealthy, but he’s very good to Pan Jinlian, even giving her all the money he earns from selling pancakes.
However, Pan Jinlian is still not satisfied and eventually has an affair with Ximen Qing, betraying her marriage.
Ximen Qing is a smooth talker who says sweet words and wins Pan Jinlian’s heart.
But Wu Dalang only knows how to do things, selling pancakes every day, and is very dull.
He does many things every day, but because he doesn’t know how to say sweet words, Pan Jinlian feels that being with him is very dull.
So, in love, it’s better not to be too honest. You can be honest with your parents, but in love, you need to find someone interesting.
The saying goes, “A good-looking shell is a dime a dozen, but a fascinating soul is hard to find.”
A person needs to be interesting, and it’s not just about their actions, but also about how they speak.
You need to express your inner feelings through your words, and others will truly understand what kind of person you are.
Some Women Are Just Pretending
In relationships, there are sweet talks, bitter fights, and unpredictable twists and turns.
Sometimes, you fall in love at first sight and immediately surrender to the other person.
You think this person is great, so you’ll do your best to treat them well.
But in the end, you discover that the other person isn’t like that at all.
There’s a popular TV show called “Thirty but Seventeen,” where there’s a character named Lin Youyou.
She appears to be a lovely and innocent young woman when she’s with the male lead.
Later, the two of them plan every step of their relationship, and the male lead eventually betrays his wife and gets together with Lin Youyou.
In reality, everyone can see that Lin Youyou is a very innocent-looking young woman, but she still makes the male lead do something wrong, revealing that she’s just pretending to be innocent.
Through her innocent appearance, she lets others fall into her trap, eventually making them commit irreparable mistakes and destroying their families.
However, for men, saying a few sweet words can immediately expose these pretending women.
If you’re with someone, try saying some sweet words to test them.
Through these words, you can see what kind of person they are.
When you know what kind of person they are, you can take corresponding measures.
As the saying goes, “Know yourself, know your enemy, and you’ll never be defeated in a hundred battles.”
This saying also applies to love.
As an adult, if you want to have a good relationship, you need to say some sweet words at the right time, making the other person feel more happy and cared for.
Two People Need Sweet Talk to Be Happy
When a woman encounters difficulties, say some sweet words.
Or when you have doubts about each other’s feelings, say some sweet words.
When encountering difficulties, saying sweet words can make you feel warm and cozy.
Even if there are many hardships, having someone by your side can help you overcome them.
Two people’s power is always greater than one person’s.
Two people’s power is not just about doing things together, but also about the cohesion of their souls.
When you make a woman feel like you’re always by her side, or when she’s struggling with something, she’ll feel more motivated.
Through encouragement, her mood will definitely improve.
When problems arise in your relationship, saying some soft words can ease the tension.
Similarly, sweet talk can adjust the atmosphere.
In fact, women still want to hear some sweet words, even if they know they might be deceiving themselves.
Someone said that in love, women’s IQ drops to zero, and they’re willing to believe in these sweet words, which is called self-deception.
In life, there are many times when you need to deceive yourself a little, and being too realistic can make you lose more.
So when you want to love someone, want to be with them for a long time, don’t be too realistic, say some words they like to hear, and occasionally tease them to make them happy.