After experiencing the college entrance exam, new students have started school. Some people say that the period after the college entrance exam is like a “divorce season.” I once read a story about this:
A girl’s parents, in order not to affect their child’s college entrance exam, agreed not to get divorced before the exam. They were worried that it would affect their child’s grades.
Every night, the father would sleep in the study room alone, and the mother would sleep in the master bedroom.
When they ate, the father would eat outside, leaving only the girl and her mother to eat together.
The girl found it strange, so she secretly observed and discovered that her parents’ emotions had already broken down. They were just pretending to maintain a superficial husband-and-wife relationship because they were worried about her college entrance exam scores.
The girl was very painful, but she made up her mind to persuade her parents to get divorced after the exam.
And so, after the exam, the girl took her parents to the civil affairs bureau to get a divorce certificate….
When you’re in love, it’s like being in a mist, and no matter how you look at it, you can’t get enough of it. After getting married, it’s like looking into a clear mirror—you can see everything clearly, and even the slightest problem will lead to a quarrel.
The One Who Loves You Will Always Give in to You
The one who loves you will always hope you’re doing well and will make sacrifices for you, even if it means giving in to you.
My husband and I have been married for over ten years, and from before we got married to now, we’ve always made decisions together, big or small.
Every day, he would ask me what I wanted to eat, and no matter what I said, he would cook it for me.
I once asked him, “Why do you always cook what I like? You can cook what you like too.”
He smiled and said, “I’m worried that you might go hungry if I cook what I like, but if you like it, I like it too.”
So, our daily meals are always what I like, whether it’s a simple or elaborate dish, as long as it’s what I want, he’ll satisfy my appetite.
If a man gives in to you when you’re in love, that’s understandable. But if he still gives in to you after decades of marriage, that’s truly loving you.
The one who loves you will always make sacrifices for you, and that’s what makes marriage beautiful.
It’s like the saying goes: “Love may be fleeting, but marriage is a long-term commitment.”
The One Who Loves You Will Always Consider You
“Why do you like me so much?”
“I’ll need a lifetime to answer that question. Are you ready to listen?”
That’s how their love became the envy of everyone.
Their marriage was as beautiful as their love story.
The one who loves you will always worry about you, no matter when or where, and even pretend to be angry to make you take care of yourself.
The one who loves you will always prioritize your happiness.
As the book says:
“A truly loving person is also one who knows how to let go. Only when both parties are at peace can true love be maintained, and the initial excitement can be sustained.”
The One Who Loves You Doesn’t Seek Revenge
Loving someone without seeking revenge means hoping the other person is happy, even if you don’t get anything in return.
A boy once fell in love with a girl and called her to ask her out. She said she had an appointment with someone else, and the boy said, “No problem, I’ll drive you to your appointment.”
This happened several times, and the boy would always drive her to her appointments. He didn’t give up, and on the way, he slowly got to know the girl better and liked her more.
Later, he finally got to go out with the girl, and she said she had already agreed to go out with someone else. Those men all left her, but the boy would always quietly drive her to her appointments.
Few people can love without seeking revenge, but if it’s true love, they won’t be impatient and will be willing to wait.
He didn’t want to possess her, but rather quietly loved her.
The one who loves you will always give in to you, consider you, and not seek revenge.