The Truly Capable People Are Those Who Can Do These 4 Things
When we were kids, many of us dreamed of being heroes. As we grew up, we all hoped to become more capable people.
Regardless of whether it’s due to the intense competition around us or the desire for a better life, we all want to become better and stronger.
In reality, we’re told that relying on family, parents, or partners isn’t as reliable as relying on our own abilities. Life is full of uncertainties, and our abilities are the best guarantee.
As we reach middle age, when we praise others, we rarely say they’re handsome or beautiful; instead, we say they’re capable.
A truly capable person isn’t necessarily physically strong or loud; sometimes, willpower and ability are more useful than brute force. Nor is a truly capable person necessarily wealthy, as many people pursue spiritual richness rather than material wealth.
However, a truly capable person must have the following characteristics.
Clearly Defined Goals, and the Ability to Execute Them
As the saying goes, “Those who have no goals are often goal-oriented, while those who have goals are goal-achievers.” Many things are easy to say but hard to do, and persistence is even harder.
Some people around us set goals for themselves, but eventually, they become all talk and no action. Over time, such people will be seen as unreliable, and others will find it hard to believe them.
Some might say, “Goals are set for oneself, not for others, so it doesn’t matter if we don’t follow through.” However, if we set goals for ourselves and don’t take action, that’s irresponsible.
A truly capable person can set clear goals and take immediate action, persisting without procrastination or excuses. They have strong execution capabilities. As for things they know they can’t do, they won’t even mention them. Recognizing one’s own strengths and limitations is also a kind of ability.
Combining action and cognitive abilities enables these capable people to set clear goals and achieve them, without just talking about it.
The Courage to Give Up
Many people hope to persevere and finish what they start.
Perseverance is indeed a good habit, and it’s reasonable to complete tasks without compromise. However, if we persist just for the sake of persistence, it can become counterproductive.
Sometimes, when we reach a certain point, continuing to persist may not be meaningful. In such cases, it’s better to adjust our direction and strive for a more suitable goal.
Many times, we’re unaware that we need to change, not because we’re attached to the outcome, but because we can’t let go of our previous efforts or accept the reality of failure.
“Unwilling to give up” and “wanting to try again” are common feelings. Some people even think that wanting to compromise when faced with difficulties is a sign of weakness.
However, truly capable people are not afraid of temporary failure and setbacks. They dare to acknowledge these setbacks and adjust their direction quickly, which is the wisest choice. To do so, they need the courage to give up, to let go, and to be willing to sacrifice.
Knowing How to Appreciate and Utilize Others’ Abilities
Truly capable people are confident in themselves and won’t feel threatened when they see capable people. Instead, they’re more likely to befriend and partner with them.
As the saying goes, “A single tree cannot make a forest.” A person’s power is limited, but when people gather, each with their unique strengths, they can accomplish more.
Therefore, truly capable people won’t reject others or feel out of place among them. They know how to utilize others’ strengths and share their own, so they won’t be isolated.
Of course, truly capable people won’t over-socialize, as human energy is limited. They’ll reserve their time and energy for the most valuable relationships.
The Ability to Endure and Keep Silent
As the saying goes, “Eating bitterness is the way to become a superior person.” Everyone has their difficulties, but some people complain constantly, while others remain silent.
Truly capable people won’t be intimidated by hardships; instead, they’ll face them head-on. They treat hardships as experiences, not injuries.
Life is full of hardships, and the difference lies in our attitude when facing them. Anyone can sail smoothly on calm waters, but only when the winds and waves arise can we see the true navigation skills.
Truly capable people have strong inner strength, enabling them to endure without complaint and focus on solving problems. In reality, this ability is mutually reinforcing: every time we endure and face difficulties, our inner strength grows stronger.
People with strong inner strength might be willing to communicate with others, but they rarely vent to others. Instead, they use silence to calm themselves, accumulate spiritual strength, and think of solutions.
No matter what they face, they can “fight back with courage and hide behind a shield,” which is an ability and a testament to their self-confidence.
Every capable person becomes more confident and calm due to their self-assurance, and this calmness enables them to make rational choices when facing difficulties.
