What Makes Women Happy Is Never a Man
“Would you feel bored being alone? Would you need to eat and chat with someone?”
“If your spiritual world is rich enough, you don’t need to release loneliness by chatting.”
This elegance, confidence, and composure are symbols of “beauty” and “happiness” in the hearts of thousands of women. This “beauty” and “happiness” don’t rely on men, but on these three inner strengths:
A happy mood, a healthy body, and outstanding abilities.
The Power to Maintain a Healthy Lifestyle
When you start exercising with the goal of getting a healthy body, you’ll find that exercise gives you more than just a healthy body and a good figure, it also gives you a happy mood.
This joy makes your life happier and your energy more abundant.
In the early days of becoming a stay-at-home mom, I was anxious. This anxiety kept me from sleeping peacefully and made me look haggard. I even lost my sunny and cheerful attitude.
Thankfully, I knew in my heart that this wasn’t the fault of being a stay-at-home mom. There must be another reason. My husband didn’t stop taking care of the baby just because I became a stay-at-home mom. On the contrary, he was very grateful for my contributions to the family and he still insisted on bathing the baby and reading picture books to him.
One day, I joined a community that focused on health. There were many moms in the group. The first time I joined the group, I was touched by everyone’s enthusiasm. I suddenly realized that stay-at-home moms could be so happy.
After observing for a while, I found that they all had one thing in common: they paid special attention to healthy lifestyles.
They would make sure each meal had a good balance of protein, vegetables, fruits, and grains. They would take the baby out for activities every day and they would do yoga or run every day.
Later, I started trying to make more delicious and healthy breakfasts. I also started exercising every day with Keep. More sunshine finally shone into my life. I gained a better parent-child relationship and a better husband-wife relationship.
Health is everything. Wealth, honor, beauty, family—the number one in front of them all. I hope our number one can all grow upwards.
The Power to Maintain a Good Mood
“I’m not a single-minded person, nor am I an anti-marriage person. I just stay in whatever state I’m comfortable with.”
Yes, life is your own, not someone else’s. Pleasing yourself and keeping yourself in a happy mood is an important path to happiness.
I have a friend who’s a mom of two kids. She works in a government organization. She works from nine to five and keeps her home in order. Her two children are both well-educated and well-behaved.
Although she’s not rich, she’s happy every day. She’ll buy a bouquet of flowers on the weekend. She’ll to make all kinds of delicious food. It costs less money and she can eat healthily and happily. Worry often makes people ignore the good things in life.
Those who are good at regulating their emotions are more likely to see the little happiness in life and the little beauty in the details.
“Forgetting the setbacks and smiling is better than remembering them and being sad.”
This friend always sees the good side of life. She truly forgets the setbacks and smiles.
For example, she focuses on having more time, not on earning less money. So she diligently learns how to make all kinds of delicious food. She works hard to make her home clean and comfortable.
Someone asked: If you could successfully travel back in time, what would you most want to change?
A highly upvoted answer was: If I could restart the past an unlimited number of times, I would probably find it boring like playing a single-player game. Those so-called imperfections are what make my life perfect to this day.
Happiness is a power, a power that can bring us happiness.
The Power of Self-Improvement
Once a person achieves something, the whole world is kind to them.
In other words, if you don’t work hard and you don’t achieve anything, it’s hard to get a kind response.
Although we don’t advocate living in the judgment of others, people are social beings after all. It’s hard for people to completely ignore the opinions of others.
So doing what you want to do and can do is happiness. Learning to do what you want to do but can’t do is even greater happiness. Maslow’s hierarchy of needs theory mentions that a person’s highest need is the need for self-actualization.
A person who continuously improves themselves and realizes their self-worth is hard not to be happy because their life is meaningful and their future is full of color and hope.
I know a woman who is 40 years old, divorced, and has a son who is in his senior year of high school.
In addition to her job, she uses her spare time to continuously learn and improve herself. After two years of hard work, she successfully became a speed reading coach. Each time she held a training camp, she earned tens of thousands of dollars. She could hold seven or eight training camps a year.
In her daily life, she is also a very studious and ambitious person. Whenever everyone asks a question, she is always the one who thinks the deepest. So whenever anyone has a question, they would ask her.
Probably because of her words and deeds, her son hardly needs her to take care of him. He can plan his studies and life well on his own.
From her, I saw the light and strength that a woman radiates from within. It’s the power to continuously break through yourself, continuously improve yourself, and then live the happy life you want.
