Chloe used to have a very happy life. She was young and beautiful, had a loving husband, and a sweet daughter.
But her husband died unexpectedly, sending her life into a downward spiral. The pain of losing her husband hadn’t faded yet, and then her mother-in-law kicked her out of the house.
Her mom urged her to give up custody of her daughter, but Chloe looked at her baby who was crying for food and wiped away her tears, determined to raise her daughter on her own.
Every day, she carried her daughter on her back and rode her electric scooter through the streets of Seattle. She wasn’t delivering food, she was on her way to deliver food. She chose to deliver food because it paid well and she could bring her daughter with her.
Chloe faced her life’s changes with a positive attitude and used her own two hands to build her own home.
“People can grow up with the protection of their parents and relatives, rely on their siblings and friends, and find happiness through their loved ones. But no matter what, in the end, you have to rely on yourself.”
Rely on yourself, so when the storm hits, you can hold your own umbrella.
Rely on yourself, so you can live your life to the fullest and head towards a bright and beautiful tomorrow. Every woman who relies on herself actually has these three mountains to lean on.
The Ability to Make Money
Amy had been married for 17 years and lived a carefree life. She was a wealthy housewife who often went out with her friends or took her kids to the beach for vacation.
Then, her husband suddenly left her, and Amy was abandoned. Her comfortable life was shattered.
Amy didn’t have time to cry and complain about her misfortune, because she had to support herself and her kids. She had to learn how to make money. She took typing classes and, with the help of her friends, she got a typing job.
Amy worked hard at her typing business and it grew bigger and bigger. She started hiring people and opened her own typing shop. She found happiness again.
Amy was once her husband’s dependent, but after experiencing life’s changes, she suddenly realized that relying on anyone was no good. After working hard, she finally became the master of her own life.
In life, we never know what comes first: tomorrow or an accident.
Women who can make money won’t be panicked when life changes unexpectedly. They will still be confident and calm.
Women who can make money have a foundation to stand on. It’s the biggest sense of security a woman can have.
Money can bring you the most precious things in the world: independence and dignity.
Only when you are financially independent can you be truly independent in life. As the old saying goes, “You can rely on your parents, but they will get old. You can rely on a man, but he might run away.”
If a woman wants to walk the world with independence and dignity, she needs to have the ability to make money. This is the most reliable mountain she will ever have.
A Healthy Body
Have you ever had this experience? You know that staying up late is bad for your health, but you still keep staring at your phone or computer until late.
You know that eating takeout all the time is unhealthy, but you still do it because it’s convenient. You know you should see a doctor when you’re feeling unwell, but you always find excuses to delay. The philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer once said:
The greatest mistake a man can make is to sacrifice his health for any other kind of good.
People say, “When you’re sick, you realize how valuable health is.” Only when you suddenly fall ill and can’t do anything, when the pillar of the family becomes a burden to everyone, do you realize that health, which you once took for granted, is so important.
I really agree with this saying: “No matter what you lack, don’t lack health. Health isn’t everything, but without health, there’s nothing.”
With a healthy body, you can perform well at work. Your family will have someone to rely on and feel safe.
Pay attention to your diet, avoid unhealthy habits, get regular checkups, exercise regularly, and develop these habits to protect your health. As the saying goes, “If you have a healthy body, you won’t have to worry about making a living.”
Only by living healthily can the flowers of life blossom and life’s value can be realized. When a woman has the mountain of health to rely on, everything is possible.
A Positive Mindset
I love this quote: “A woman’s mindset is a magical thing. It can make her sink and lose herself in life, or it can make her move forward and find sunshine everywhere.”
No one’s life is always smooth sailing. We will inevitably encounter setbacks and difficulties. The key is to choose what kind of mindset you will use to face them.
A positive mindset can help you get out of the low point in your life quickly. A negative mindset will make you sink deeper and deeper into the swamp of pain.
Lily and Jane were best friends. They got married in the same year, gave birth in the same year, and got divorced in the same year. Two people with the same fate, but because of their different attitudes towards setbacks, they ended up with different lives.
Lily faced the failure of her marriage by crying all day long. She complained to everyone about how cruel and heartless her ex-husband was, and how she was a victim. She was stuck in her pain and couldn’t get out.
At first, people felt sorry for her, but gradually everyone started to avoid her. She was full of resentment and drove people away. Jane faced the failure of her marriage and cried herself to sleep at night. She also hated that heartless man.
But she quickly realized that if she let hatred consume her, her future would be shrouded in darkness. She decided to adjust her mindset and get out of her life’s low point as soon as possible.
At work, she worked harder than before. She was willing to work overtime or go on business trips whenever her boss asked. Jane’s hard work earned her a promotion and a raise. She became a department manager and her salary increased significantly.
In her personal life, she started running for an hour every morning. Exercise produced dopamine and made her feel happy. She had a healthy body and a beautiful figure. In her spare time, she learned to draw, making her life more fulfilling and colorful.
Two years after the divorce, Lily looked haggard and seemed to be several years older. Jane, on the other hand, was still radiant. She met a new man.
Both experienced the same setback in their marriage, but Lily was completely defeated, while Jane was reborn.
Only when a woman has a positive and optimistic mindset, even when she is in the midst of a terrible storm, can she walk confidently towards sunshine, fragrance, and a brand new world.
Someone said, “The kind of life you have depends on your attitude towards life.” If you are going through a difficult time in your life, face it with a good attitude. Only then will you have hope and make your life sweeter and sweeter.
Actually, the bitterness and sweetness of life are all in your mind.
See the world with a pure heart, live life with a joyful heart, feel the taste of life with an ordinary heart, and remove obstacles with a gentle heart.
Things change according to your mind, and your environment is created by your mind. When a woman has the mountain of a good mindset to rely on, her life will be peaceful and smooth.
I once read this quote: “When you rely on others, you have to listen to their nagging. When you depend on others, you have to listen to their criticism. When you cling to others, you have to tolerate their temper.”
Only when a woman relies on herself is she the captain of her own ship. When to set sail and where to go is entirely up to her. Women rely on their abilities to make money, giving themselves a sense of security to live the life they want.
Women have a healthy body, giving themselves a sense of stability to go where they want to go. Women have a good mindset, giving themselves self-confidence to see the scenery they want to see.
May you and I all rely on ourselves, build our own mountains, live our lives with passion, and make our lives clear and bright.